Sunday, September 13, 2009

How To Get Ex Back: Are You Making Plans?

Those of us who have been in a relationship know how difficult it is to go through a break up. Though most of us try to forget the past and move on, there are some who are unable to part ways and still are in love with their erstwhile partner. These people try different methods and plan on how to get ex back.







If you can't learn to get him or her out of your mind and can't imagine moving on, then there is no other solution but to give it your best shot and try to win them back. The key to winning your ex back is to know what went wrong. The best thing is to ask them at the time of breaking up but there is no guarantee you would be getting a honest answer.






There are also those people who do not take well to being dumped and are more angry than upset at the prospect of having been shown the door. They try to find ways on how to get ex back not because they are in love but because they want it to have happened the other way around.






Every break up has a high chance of being reversed and only requires some careful planning and the right approach to be adopted by you. Through a lot of patience and perseverance you could easily make your ex want you back and the first step in learning how to get ex back is to find out the reason why you were dumped in the first place.






Almost all break ups can be reversed and it just requires some amount of planning and a calculated approach to the whole situation. You needn't come up with complicated ideas. The approach is rather simple and the first step in learning how to get ex back is to figure out the reason behind the break up first.






The important to thing to know about how to get ex back is to adopt a cool and stoical attitude in the aftermath of a break up. You should not appear unconcerned, but at the same time you should not go around acting like your life has been snatched away either.






The important thing you need to keep in mind when learning how to get ex back is to be detached from the whole trauma of breaking up. Relax yourself and keep calm and cool rather than being agitated and grumpy. The way you take the first blow determines the outcome of your attempt to fix things. You should never come across as needy and cringe for their affections. Being apologetic will only worsen your situation. At the same time you cannot afford to be indifferent. Act as if you accept your mistakes and behave as though you have corrected them.






If they see that you are having a good time despite the break up, they would feel a sting and that sting could very well be the crack you need to work on. Hang out with friends from the opposite sex and make sure you are watched by them or their friends. Be aloof and cool if you encounter them at social gatherings and try to adopt the same that you had when you were single, but just leave them out of your scope of targeting. This triggers jealousy. The important thing is to make them miss what they had going on with you and want it back.


1: Manage To Have Your Wedding Be Unique

From the moment you got engaged, thoughts of your wedding have filled your head. It is supposed to be a magical event that you and your guest will always remember. To do that, it can't just be a cookie-cutter wedding; you want something that all your own. Of course there are the wedding favors. Making sure you have unique wedding favors is a start. There is no magic formula for that unique wedding, but if you see some of the things other people have done you might get some ideas.







One very sweet, unique idea came to this one couple. The enclosed a few dried and pressed red rose pedals with the invitations they sent out. They also enclosed a note to bring the pedals with them to the ceremony. There they were added with white rose pedals and given to the flower girl. Before the bride walked down the isle there was a carpet of pedals from friends and family. Everyone had their own special part in the ceremony.






The ceremony it's self really lends it's self to so many ways to be creative and to make your wedding beautiful and unique. One interesting one was in a wedding of an Irish American family. Along with the tuxedo the groom and grooms men for a sash of their family clan. It took a little searching on the internet and special ordering but the end result was moving. Another beautiful idea was for a night time wedding. It was kept in low light after everyone was seated. As the bride's maids and groom's men marched down the aisle each of them carried a pair of ornate lanterns. At what served as the alter the lanterns were placed (and turned up) and the entire ceremony was conducted by lantern light. It cast a nice romantic glow as they exchanged vows. Others that have had an outside wedding have shied away from the traditional layout with the bride and groom at the front of rows of chairs. Instead, they opted for a round dais or alter in the center of rings of chairs. The bride and groom would enter from opposite sides, passing under rose covered arbors to meet in the center. It gave the ceremony a very intimate feel.






Still others have tried to take that intimate feel to the reception. One idea was to light it almost entirely by candle light. To get the effect they wanted they placed round mirrors on the tables with a candle in a glass vase in the center. From the ceiling they hung fixtures with multifaceted reflective surfaces. It gave the feeling of dancing under twinkling stars. If you wanted to get really nutty you could turn down the thermostat and use just a little dry ice to give it a "A Mid Summer's Night" sort of feel. It would look very magical and Edwardian.






You could go very practical. Kids get bored at receptions and some parents just stop long enough to see the cutting of the cake. Try renting a few kid-sized tables and top it with crayons and coloring books. Sure, the parents won't be closing down the reception but it can buy the parents some time to enjoy the event before the kids get too bored






There are all sorts of things you can do that your planner might not think of. It's your day and you can make it your own.


Saturday, September 12, 2009

From Strangers to Lovers

A stranger you were once.



Then, with a gentle look you took my hand.


As our lives engaged,


you lit my life and I held both your hands.


Now that decades have passed,


ours souls have indeed become one.


How fortunate we are


that we have found the love so true


that everyone dreams about.

Darling Wife

A gentle word like a spark of light,



Illuminates my soul


And as each sound goes deeper,


It's YOU that makes me whole






There is no corner, no dark place,


YOUR LOVE cannot fill


And if the world starts causing waves,


It's your devotion that makes them still






And yes you always speak to me,


In sweet honesty and truth


Your caring heart keeps out the rain,


YOUR LOVE, the ultimate roof






So thank you my Love for being there,


For supporting me, my life


I'll do the same for you, you know,


My Beautiful, Darling Wife.


What I Love About You

I love the way you look at me,



Your eyes so bright and blue.


I love the way you kiss me,


Your lips so soft and smooth.






I love the way you make me so happy,


And the ways you show you care.


I love the way you say, "I Love You,"


And the way you're always there.






I love the way you touch me,


Always sending chills down my spine.


I love that you are with me,


And glad that you are mine.


One Wish

If I could have just one wish,



I would wish to wake up everyday


to the sound of your breath on my neck,


the warmth of your lips on my cheek,


the touch of your fingers on my skin,


and the feel of your heart beating with mine...


Knowing that I could never find that feeling


with anyone other than you.


An Entrapment

My love, I have tried with all my being



to grasp a form comparable to thine own,


but nothing seems worthy;






I know now why Shakespeare could not


compare his love to a summer’s day.


It would be a crime to denounce the beauty


of such a creature as thee,


to simply cast away the precision


God had placed in forging you.






Each facet of your being


whether it physical or spiritual


is an ensnarement


from which there is no release.


But I do not wish release.


I wish to stay entrapped forever.


With you for all eternity.


Our hearts, always as one.


A Special World

A special world for you and me



A special bond one cannot see


It wraps us up in its cocoon


And holds us fiercely in its womb.






Its fingers spread like fine spun gold


Gently nestling us to the fold


Like silken thread it holds us fast


Bonds like this are meant to last.






And though at times a thread may break


A new one forms in its wake


To bind us closer and keep us strong


In a special world, where we belong.


LOVE U



You hold my hand, I caress your lips,



You look into my eyes and my heart beat skips.


I stroke your back skin so soft and smooth,


I admire your face, every line, every groove.


We move in a little closer, our bodies entwine,


you touch my neck, it sends shivers down my spine.


You whisper that you love me and I know it's true


because I feel it in my heart and I love you too.






- Zalihe Hussain -
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Friday, September 11, 2009

love Poem

What would he give, to spend time with


His one true love on high

To once again, stroll through the glen

Where they kissed a fond goodbye

What thoughts unfold, to have and hold

His bonnie lass so fair

As he will keep, his love so deep

In his heart, so growing there



What would he say, if come the day

They meet by deed or fate


Could he bestow, and clearly show


His feelings, with no debate


What could he do, to show her true


His love so pure divine


Will grow on high, to never die


And last till end of time

One TRUE Love

I will break free from this sphere



and will not give into my fears


as long as you are in my life


together we will defeat strife






Every bleak moment you replace


with thoughtful words to embrace


those years of trials and tribulations


tied us with a strong connection






Days of depression are no more


for you heal each of my sore


I will not crawl back into that hole


cause you are here healing my soul






Feelings of love flutter in my eyes


where once it used to be ice


you awake a dying woman in me


and now I am the woman I can be






I know I am stubborn and annoying


yet your patience keeps our relation going


you are my one true love to hold,


I pray this bond never grows cold










Based on a quote:


Blessed is the influence of one true, loving human soul on another by George Eliot



Wednesday, September 2, 2009



Effect of Rahu in ur kundali

Unlike other planets of the solar system Rahu and Ketu are not observable, substantial heavenly bodies, with shape or mass content. Rightly termed as shadowy planets, their movement is interrelated and as parts of one body they are at all times just opposite to each other . Greater significance has been attached to the role of Rahu in influencing human affairs in various dimensions, especially in Kaliyug.
The author of Lal Kitab describes Saturn as a serpent and Rahu and Ketu as its head and tail respectively. As a node of moon, Rahu shall not provide adverse results so long as 4th house or moon is not afflicted. He gives good results when Mars occupies houses 3 and 12, or when Sun and Mercury are in house 3, or when he himself is posited in 4th house. Rahu further provides good results if placed together with Mercury or aspected by him.
Rahu offers highly beneficial effects if placed in houses earlier than Saturn. But if it is otherwise, Saturn becomes stronger and Rahu acts as his agent. Sun provides very good results when Rahu is aspected by Saturn, but Rahu gives the effects of a debilitated planet when Saturn is aspected by Rahu.
Rahu gets exalted in houses 3 and 6, whereas he gets debilitated in houses 8, 9 and 11. 12th house is his 'Pakka Ghar' and he proves highly auspicious in houses 3,4 and 6. Saturn, Mercury and Ketu are his friends, whereas Sun, Mars and Venus are his enemies. Jupiter and moon are neutral to him.
If Sun and Venus are placed together in a horoscope, Rahu will generally provide adverse results. Similarly, Rahu will provide bad results if Saturn and Sun are also combined in a horoscope. Here Mars will also become Mars negative. If Ketu is placed in houses earlier than Rahu, Rahu will provide adverse results, whereas Ketu's effect would be zeroed.

Rahu in 1st House
1st house is influenced by Mars and Sun, which is like a throne. The planet in 1st house is considered to be the king of all planets. The native will achieve a position higher than indicated by his qualification and will obtain good results from government. Rahu in this house would give the result of exalted Sun, but it will spoil the fruits of the house in which Sun is placed. If Mars, Saturn and Ketu are weak only then Rahu would give bad results, otherwise it will give good results in 1st house. If Rahu is malefic the native should never take any electric equipments or blue/black clothes from his in-laws, else his son could be affected adversely. its malefic result too could last till the age of 42 years.
Remedies(1) Offer 400 gm lead in running water .(2) Wear silver in the neck.(3) Mix barley in milk in ratio of 1:4 and offer in running water. (4) Offer coconut in running water.

Rahu in 2nd House
If Rahu is in benefic form in 2nd house one gets money, prestige and lives like a king. He will have a long life. 2nd house is influenced by Jupiter and Venus. If Jupiter is benefic then the native will live the early years of his life in wealth and comfort. If Rahu is malefic the native will be poor and have a bad family life, suffer from intestinal disorders. The native is killed by a weapon and is unable to save money. In the 10th, 21st to 42nd years of his life, he loses wealth by theft etc.
Remedies(1) Keep a solid silver ball in the pocket.(2) Wear things associated with Jupiter, like gold, yellow cloth, saffron etc.(3) Keep cordial relations with ones mother.(4) After marriage do not take any electric equipment from in-laws.

Rahu in 3rd House
It is the 'Pukka Ghar' of Rahu. 3rd house belongs to Mercury and is influenced by Mars. When Rahu is benefic the native will enjoy great wealth and a long life. He will be fearless and a loyal friend. He would be a clairvoyant for seeing future in his dreams. He will never be issueless. He will be victorious over his enemies; can never be a debtor. He would leave behind property. 22nd year of his life would be of progress. However if Rahu is malefic in 3rd house then his brothers and relatives would waste his money. His money once borrowed would never be returned. He would have defective speech and would be an atheist. If Sun and Mercury are also there (in 3rd house) with Rahu then his sister would become a widow in 22nd or 32nd year of his life.
Remedies(1) Never keep ivory or things of ivory in the house.

Rahu in 4th House
This house belongs to Moon, which is an enemy of Rahu. When Rahu is benefic in this house the native would be intelligent, wealthy and will spend money on good things. Going on pilgrimage would be beneficial for him. If Venus is also benefic then after marriage the native's in-laws could also become rich and the native would also benefit from them.
When Moon is exalted the native would become very rich and would benefit from the works or relatives associated with Mercury. If Rahu is malefic and the Moon is also weak then the native will suffer from poverty and native's mother would also suffer. Collecting char coal, altering toilet, installing oven in the ground and alteration of the roof in the house would be indicative of malefic.
Remedies(1) Wear silver.(2) Offer 400 gm coriander or almonds, or both in flowing water.

Rahu in 5th House
5th house belongs to Sun, which signifies male offspring. If Rahu is benefic native will be rich, wise, enjoy good health. He would enjoy good income and good progress. The native would be a devout or philosopher. If Rahu is malefic it leads to abortions. After the birth of a son, wife's health will suffer for twelve years. If Jupiter is also in 5th house father of native will be in trouble.
Remedies(1) Keep an elephant made of silver.(2) Abstain from wine, non-vegetarianism and adultery.(3) Remarry your wife.

Rahu in 6th House
This house is influenced by Mercury or Ketu. Here Rahu is exalted and gives very good results. The native will be free of all botherations or troubles. The native will spend money on clothes. The native will be intelligent and victorious. When Rahu is malefic he will harm his brothers or friends. When Mercury or Mars is in 12th house Rahu gives bad result. The native suffers from various ailments or loss of wealth. Sneezing while going to work would give bad results.
Remedies(1) Keep a black dog.(2) Keep a lead nail in your pocket.(3) Never harm ones brothers/sisters.

Rahu in 7th House
Native will be rich, but wife would suffer. He would be victorious over his enemies. If the marriage takes place before twenty one years, it would be inauspicious. He would have good relations with the government. But if he engages in business connected with Rahu, like electrical equipments, then he will have losses. Native would suffer from head ache and if Mercury, Venus or Ketu is in 11th house, then sister, wife or son would destroy the native.
Remedies(1) Never marry before 21st year of age.(2) Offer six coconuts in river.

Rahu in 8th House
8th house is concerned with Saturn and Mars. So Rahu in this house gives malefic effect. The native would spend money uselessly on court cases. Family life would be adversely affected. If Mars is benefic and is placed in 1st or 8th house or Saturn (benefic) is placed in 8th house, the native will be very rich.
Remedies(1) Keep a square piece of silver.(2) While sleeping Saunf should be keep under the pillow.(3) Do not work in electricity or power department.

Rahu in 9th House
9th house is influenced by Jupiter. If the native has good relation with ones brothers and sisters it is fruitful; else it would adversely affect the native. If the native is not religious minded then his progeny would be useless for him. Professions influenced by Saturn would be profitable.
If Jupiter is in 5th or 11th house then it is useless. If Rahu is inauspicious in 9th house then chances of begetting a son are less, specially if native files court cases against one's blood relation. Rahu is in 9th and 1st house is empty then health could be adversely affected and one gets insulted and mental problems, specially from olders.
Remedies(1) Use Tilak of saffron daily.(2) Wear gold.(3) Always keep a dog (it saves ones progeny).(4) Have good relations with your in-laws.

Rahu in 10th House
Keeping ones head uncovered gives the effect of a debilitated Rahu in 10th house. The good or bad result of Rahu would depend upon Saturn's position. If Saturn is auspicious then native would be brave, long lived and rich and get respect from all quarters. If Rahu in 10th house is with Moon it gives Raja Yoga. The native is lucky for ones father. If Rahu in 10th house is malefic then it would adversely affect ones mother or native's health would also be bad. If Moon is alone in 4th house then native's eyes are adversely affected. He suffers from headaches and there is loss of wealth, because of a dark complexioned person.
Remedies(1) Use blue or black cap.(2) Cover ones head.(3) Offer 4kg. or 400 gms of 'khand' in a temple, or in flowing water.(4) Feed blind people.

Rahu in 11th House
11th house is influenced by both Saturn and Jupiter. Native could be rich as long as his father is alive. Alternatively, establishing things of Jupiter would help. Native has wicked friends. He gets money from mean people. After the death of ones father he should wear gold in the neck. If Mars is malefic for a native with Rahu in 11th at time of his birth, there is every thing in his house, but every thing gets destroyed later. If Rahu in 11th house is malefic then the native has bad relations with his father or he may even kill him. Planet in 2nd house would act as enemy. If Jupiter/Saturn are in 3rd or 11th house then wear iron on the body and drink water in a silver glass. If ketu is in 5th house then Ketu gives bad results. There may be diseases of ear, spine, urinary problems etc. There may be losses associated with business concerned with Ketu.
Remedies(1) Wear iron. Use silver glass for drinking water.(2) Never take any electric equipment as a gift.(3) Do not keep blue sapphire, ivory or toys in the shape of an elephant.

Rahu in 12th House
12th house belongs to Jupiter. It signifies bedroom. Rahu here gives mental troubles, insomnia. It also leads to excessive expenditure on sisters and daughters. If Rahu is with its enemies then it becomes next to impossible to make ends meet, despite hard labour. It also leads to false allegations. One may even go to the extreme of contemplating suicide. One has mental worries.
Telling lies, deceiving others etc. may make Rahu even more malefic. If some body sneezes at the start of any new work if gives malefic effect. There may be theft, diseases or false allegations. If mars is with Rahu here, then it gives good results.
Remedies(1) Take your meals in the kitchen itself.(2) Keep Saunf and khand under the pillow for good night's sleep.