Effect of MOON on You.

Moon in Ist House

In general, the 1st house belongs to Mars and Sun. When the moon is also placed therein, this house
will come under the combined influences of the Mars, the Sun and the Moon i.e. all the 3 mutual
friends will be treated as occupants of this house. The Sun and Mars will extend all friendly support
to their natural friend Moon placed on the throne i.e. the ascendant house.
Such native will be soft-hearted and will inherit all the traits and qualities of his mother. He will be
either the eldest brother or will certainly be treated so. As long as the native receives the blessings
of his mother and keeps her happy, he will continue to rise and prosper in every way.
The things and the relatives as represented by Mercury, who is inimical to Moon, will prove harmful
to the native, e.g., the sister-in-law and the green color will affect adversely. Hence it is better to
keep away from them.
Burning milk (for making Khoya) or selling milk for profit would reduce or minimize the power of
the Moon placed in the 1st house, which means that the native’s life and property would be destroyed
if he engages himself in such activities. Such a native should serve others with water and
milk freely for long life and all round prosperity. Such a native will get a life of about 90 years and
will be bestowed with honours and fame by the Govt.
Remedies
1. Do not marry between the age of 24 and 27 years, i.e., marry either before 24 years of age or
after 27 years of age.
2. Do not build a house out of your earnings between 24 and 27 years of age.
3. Keep away from the green colour and sister-in-law. Do not keep a silver pot or kettle with a
snout (Toti) in it in the house.
4. Offer water to the roots of a Banyan tree whenever you can afford.
5. Insert copper nails on the four corners of your bed.
6. Whenever crossing a river, always throw coins in it for the welfare of your children.
7. Always keep a silver Thali in your house.
8. Use Silver pots for drinking water or milk and avoid the use of glassware for the same.


Moon in 2nd House

The results of the 2nd house, when Moon is placed therein, will be influenced by Jupiter, Venus and
the Moon, because this is the Puckka Ghar, the permanent house of Jupiter and Venus is the lord of
the second Rashi Taurus. The Moon gives very good results in this house, as it becomes very strong
here because of the friendly support of Jupiter against Venus.
Such a native may not have sisters, but will certainly be having brothers. In case he doesn’t have,
his wife will certainly have brothers. He will certainly receive his due share in parental properties.
Whatever be the planetary position otherwise, but the Moon here will ensure male offspring to the
native.
The native will receive good education, which will add to his fortune. The Business associated with
the things of the Moon will prove highly advantageous. He may be a reputed teacher also.
The Ketu placed in the 12th house will cause eclipse of the Moon here, which will deprive the
native either of good education or of male children.
Remedies
1. Temple within the native’s house may deprive the native of male issue.
2. The things associated with the Moon, i.e., silver, rice, non-cemented floor of the house, the
mother and old women and their blessings will prove very lucky for the native.
3. Offering green colour clothes to small girls continuously for 43 days.
4. Place the things associated with the Moon into the foundation of your house, e.g., a square
piece of silver.


Moon in 3rd House

The results of the 3rd house, when the Moon is placed therein, will be influenced by the Mars,
Mercury and Moon. Here the Moon proves highly beneficial to ensure a long life and great wealth
or riches for the native.
If there are no planets in the 9th and 11th houses, then Mars and Venus will give good results to the
native because of the Moon being in the 3rd house.
With the advancement of the native’s education and learning, the economic condition of his father
will deteriorate, but without affecting his education adversely. If Ketu’s placing in the horoscope is
auspicious and not harming the Moon in the 3rd, the education of the native will bear good fruits
and prove advantageous in every manner.
If the Moon is malefic, it will cause great loss of wealth and money at the age of the malefic planet
placed in the 9th house.
Remedies
1. Offer in donation the things associated with the Moon, e.g., silver or rice, after the birth of a
daughter and the things associated with the Sun e.g., wheat and jaggery when a son is born.
2. Do not make use of your daughter’s money and wealth.
3. To avoid the evil effects of a malefic planet in the 8th house, serve the guests and others by
offering them milk and water freely.
4. Worshipping Goddess Durga and obtaining the blessings of small girls by touching their feet
after serving them food and sweets.


Moon in 4th House

The results of the 4th house are the general product of the total influences of Moon, the lord of the
4th Rashi Cancer and the permanent resident of the 4th house. Here the Moon becomes very strong
and powerful in every manner.
The use of, and association with the things represented by the Moon will prove highly beneficial to
the native. Offer milk in place of water to the guests. Obtain blessings of your mother or the elderly
women by touching their feet. The 4th house is the river of income which will continue to increase
expenditure. In other words, expenditure will augment income.
The native will be a reputed and honoured person with soft heart and all sorts of riches. He will
inherit all the traits and qualities of his mother and will face the problems of life boldly like a lion.
He will receive honour and favours from the government along with riches and will provide peace
and shelter to others.
Good education will be ensured for the native. If Jupiter is placed in the 6th house and Moon in the
4th, parental profession will suit him. If a person has mortgaged certain valuables to the native, he
will never come back to demand it.
If Moon be placed with 4 planets in the 4th house, the native will be economically very strong and
wealthy. The male planets will help the native like sons and the female planets like daughters.
Remedies
1. Selling of milk for profit and burning of milk for making Khoya, etc., will have a very adverse
effects on income, life span and mental peace.
2. Adultery and flirtation will be seriously detrimental to the native’s reputation and prospects of
wealth gains.
3. The more the expenses, the more the income.
4. Before beginning any auspicious or new work, place a pitcher or any container filled with milk
in the house.
5. For warding off the evil generated by the Jupiter placed in the 10th house, the native should
visit places of worship along with his grandfather and offer their oblations by placing their
forehead at the feet of the deity.


Moon in 5th House

The results of the 5th house, when the Moon is placed therein, will be influenced by the Sun, the
Ketu and the Moon. The native will adopt just and right means to earn wealth and will not yield to
wrong doing. He may not do well in business but certainly receive favours and honours from the
government. Anyone supported by him will win.
The Moon in the 5th house will give 5 sons if the Ketu is well placed and benefic even if the Moon
is joined by malefic planets. By his education and learning the native will undertake several measures
for others welfare, but the others will not do good to him.
Further, the native will be destroyed if he becomes greedy and selfish. If he fails to keep his plans a
secret, his own men will damage him seriously.
Remedies
1. Keep control over your tongue. Never use abusive language to ward off troubles.
2. Avoid becoming greedy and over selfish.
3. Deceit and dishonesty towards others will affect you adversely.
4. Acting upon the advice of another person before trying to harm anybody will ensure very good
results and a life of about 100 years.
5. Public service will enhance income and reputation of the native.


Moon in 6th House

This house is affected by the Mercury and Ketu. The Moon in this house will be affected by the
planets placed in the 2nd, 8th, 12th and 4th houses. The native will receive education with obstacles
and will have to struggle a lot for reaping the benefits of his educational achievements.
If the Moon is placed in the 6th, 2nd, 4th, 8th and 12th houses it is auspicious. The native would
enliven a dying person by putting a few drops of water in his mouth.
But if the Moon is malefic in the 6th house and Mercury is placed in the 2nd or 12th house, the
native will have suicidal tendencies. Similarly, if the Moon is malefic and the Sun is placed in the
12th house, then the native or his wife or both will have severe eye defects and troubles.
Remedies
1. Serve milk to your father with your own hands.
2. Never take milk during night. But intake of milk during day time and use of even curd and
cheese during night is permissible.
3. Do not offer milk as donation. It can be given only at religious places of worship.
4. Digging of wells for public will destroy the issues, but digging of wells in a hospital or within
the premises of cremation ground will not be harmful.


Moon in 7th house

The 7th house belongs to Venus and Mercury. When the Moon is placed here, the results of this
house will be affected by the Venus, Mercury and Moon. Venus and Mercury combined together
give the effects of the Sun. The 1st house aspects the 7th house. Consequently the rays of the Sun
from the 1st house would be enlightening the Moon if placed in the 7th, which means that the things
and the relatives represented by the Moon will provide highly beneficial and good results.
Educational achievements will prove fruitful for earning money or wealth. He may or may not have
properties but will certainly have cash money in hand always. He will have good potential for being
a poet or astrologer, or else he will be characterless and will have great love for mysticism and
spiritualism.
The 7th Moon also denotes conflict between the native’s wife and mother, adverse effects in milk
trade. Disobedience towards mother will cause overall tensions and troubles.
Remedies
1. Avoid marriage in the 24th year of your life.
2. Always your mother keep happy.
3. Never sell milk or water for profit.
4. Do not burn milk for making Khoya.
5. Ensure that in marriage your wife brings silver and rice with her from her parents, equal to her
weight.


Moon in 8th House

This house belongs to Mars and Saturn. The Moon here affects the education of the native adversely,
but if education goes well the native’s mother’s life will be shortened and very often such
a native loses both -education and the mother. However, the evil effects of the Moon in the 7th
house will be mitigated if Jupiter and Saturn be placed in the 2nd house.
The 7th Moon often deprives the native of his parental properties. If there is a well or pond adjacent
to the parental property of the native, he will receive adverse results of the Moon all through his
life.
Remedies
1. Avoid gambling and flirting.
2. Perform Shraddha ceremony for to your ancestors.
3. Do not build any house after covering a well with roof.
4. Obtain blessings of the old men and children by touching their feet.
5. Bring water from the well or water tap situated within the boundaries of a cremation ground
and place it within your house. It will ward off all the evils generated by the Moon in the 7th
house.
6. Offer gram and pulse in places of worship.


Moon in 9th House

The 9th house belongs to Jupiter, who is a great friend of the Moon. Hence the native will imbibe
the traits and features of both these planets - good conduct, soft heartedness, religious bent of mind
and love for virtuous acts and pilgrimage. He will live upto 75 years. A friendly planet in the 5th
house will augment comforts and pleasures from the son and develops intense interest in religious
deeds. A friendly planet in the 3rd house ensures great increase in money and wealth.
Remedies
1. Install the things associated with the Moon within the house, e.g., place a square piece of silver
in the almirah.
2. Serve the labourers with milk.
3. Offer milk to snakes and rice to fish.


Moon in 10th House

The 10th house is in every manner ruled by Saturn. This house is aspected by the 4th house, which
is similarly ruled by Moon. Hence the Moon in the 10th house ensures a long life of about 90 years
for the native. Moon and Saturn are inimical, therefore, medicines in liquid form will always prove
harmful to him. The milk will act as poison if taken during night. If he is a medical practitioner, dry
medicines administered by him to the patient will have a magical effect for cure. If a surgeon, he
will earn great wealth and fame for surgery. If the 2nd and 4th houses are empty money and wealth
will rain on him.
If Saturn is placed in the 1st house, the native’s life will be destroyed by the opposite sex, especially
a widow.
The things and business represented by Saturn will prove beneficial for the native.
Remedies
1. Visits to religious places of worship will enhance the fortune of the native.
2. Store the natural water of rain or the river in a container and keep it within your house for 15
years. It will wash off the poisons and evil effects generated by the Moon in the 10th house.
3. Avoid taking milk during night.
4. Milch animals can neither live long in your house nor will they prove beneficial or auspicious.
5. Abstain from wine, meat and adultery.


Moon in 11th house

This house is strongly influenced by Jupiter and Saturn. Every planet placed in this house will
destroy its inimical planets and the things associated with them. In this way the Moon here will
destroy its enemy Ketu’s things, i.e., the sons of the native. Here the Moon will have to face the
combined power of its enemies Saturn and Ketu, which will weaken the Moon. Now if Ketu is
placed in the 4th house, the life of the native’s mother will be endangered. The business associated
with Mercury will also prove harmful. Starting house construction or purchase of a house on Saturdays
will strengthen the Saturn (the Moon’s enemy) which will prove disastrous for the native.
Kanyadan after the midnight and participating in any marriage ceremony on Fridays will damage
the fortunes of the native.
Remedies
1. Offer milk in Bhairo Mandir and donate milk to others liberally.
2. Ensure that the grandmother does not see her grandson.
3. Heat up a piece of gold in fire and put it in a glass of milk before drinking it.
4. Throw 125 pieces of sweet (Peda) in a river.


Moon in 12th house

This house belongs to Moon’s friend Jupiter. Here the Moon will have good effects on Mars and the
things associated with Mars, but it will harm its enemies Mercury and Ketu and the things associated
with them. Hence the business and things associated with the house in which Mars is placed
will provide highly beneficial effects. Similarly, the business and things associated with the houses
where Mercury and Ketu are placed will be strongly damaged. The Moon in the 12th houses causes
a general fear in the native’s mind about numerous unforeseen troubles and dangers and thus destroys
his sleep and peace of mind. Ketu in the 4th house will become weak and affect the native’s
son and mother very adversely.
Remedies
1. Wearing Gold in ears, drinking milk after inserting hot piece of gold in it and visiting religious
places of worship will ward off the evils of the Moon in 12th house and also that of the Ketu in
the 4th house.
2. Never offer milk and food to religious saints/sadhus.
3. Do not open a school, college or any other educational institute and do not help children in
obtaining free of cost education.

How to Impress HIM.....(only for Girls)

It is a general opinion that men are easier to impress than women. It does make perfect sense considering that guys do not have girls hitting on them that often as their female counterparts do. But if you think it to be a cakewalk than you probably are a bit far from reality.

There is one basic truth that holds though and that is just like women love their potential partner to have confidence men also like women who possess lots of self confidence. Be positive about who you are and how you look as that will not only increase your confidence but will also be an excellent attraction factor for the guy.
Try to be independent as men like women who are not completely dependent on them and can take care of themselves. Though you are not expected to think on the lines of Einstein, every man likes his girl to have a certain level of intelligence.

Most guys would agree that they would want to be with a woman who dresses modestly rather than the one who has to expose to look good. Guys like to look at such a girl but only when she is with someone else. So be sure to dress decently and wear clothes you feel most comfortable in as you will be fun only when you feel relaxed.

Be your own self and do not pretend to be like someone else. Accept the truth that you cannot attract every man out there as every guy may not like you but in trying to change yourself you will probably end up losing your biggest asset and that is your originality. Remember, the right guy will be the one who accepts you the way you are.

While it feels nice to receive gifts and surprises, do not always expect to be showered with gifts without giving anything in return. Surprise your guy by taking along flowers or any other small gift on a first date.

Now 7 Simple Tips for Girls on How to Impress a Guy

1. Keep smiling always as it will melt his heart and will help relax both of you even in tense situations.

2. Guys appreciate fun loving girls. It won’t be a bad idea to talk to your guy in a casual manner once in a while.

3. Gone are the days when guys were always expected to make the first move. So don’t be shy and tell him what is in your heart and how do you feel about him.

4. Not just girls but guys also like to be flattered. Dish out that occasional compliment and watch what wonders it can do.

5. Just look at him in the eyes and smile for two seconds but do not stare.

6. Smell good. Wear a nice perfume as it will not only make you confident but will also make the guy attracted to you.

7. Having a certain level of intelligence and knowledge of the events happening around you will help you strike a meaningful conversation.

How to get Her...(only for guys)

Without going into all the details of science, here are the generally excepted “best strategies” that men can use to approach their partner.

Assume that, you are a little distance away from her, across the room/hotel etc.

Make eye contact: Maintain steady eye contact with her and hold it just a little bit too long.

Smile at her: Make sure your smile is friendly and respectful, not a dirty grin or a smirk.

Give her a nod: If she returns your gaze “within 45 seconds”, give her a nod. The nod reads, "I like you. May I talk to you?"

Move within her range: The final step is to move close enough to her to talk. Do this last step fast. If you do not, you will look very un-confident to her.

You might be wondering what that whole 45 seconds thing was about. You see, when you look at her and hold your eye contact for a few extra seconds, be prepared for her to look away. A woman has been trained to lower her eyes when a man looks at her. Remember: This does not mean she is not interested.

Research and analysis tells us, after looking away, if the woman looks up again within 45 seconds, she welcomes your attention. So, if she pretends to look at something else and looks back at you within 45 seconds, she likes you. Go to the next step. Give her a nod and move within her talking range.

Now the question is, what do you say when you approach her? Do you use a “pickup line” Something like, “Is your father a terrorist? Because you a bomb!”

NO! NO! NO! Do not do this. Pick up lines are just jokes. They are not supposed to be used actually. They will never work!

Your opening words should relate to the woman or the current situation. Ask her what time it is. Compliment her watch or her outfit. Ask her for directions. Inquire how she knows the host or hostess of the party. Whatever you say, she knows it's just an excuse for you to talk to her. If she likes you, that's fine with her.

So be confident and just say something simple. I will come to the art of conversation a little later…

Origin Of April Fool's Day

The most popular theory about the origin of April Fool’s Day involves the French calendar reform of the sixteenth century.




The theory goes like this: In 1564 France reformed its calendar, moving the start of the year from the end of March to January 1. Those who failed to keep up with the change, who stubbornly clung to the old calendar system and continued to celebrate the New Year during the week that fell between March 25th and April 1st, had jokes played on them. Pranksters would surreptitiously stick paper fish to their backs. The victims of this prank were thus called Poisson d’Avril, or April Fish—which, to this day, remains the French term for April Fools—and so the tradition was born.



The calendar-change hypothesis seems, on the surface, like a logical explanation for the origin of April Fools. However, the hypothesis becomes less plausible if we examine the history of calendar reform in more detail.



The Julian Calendar

The Julian Calendar, established by Julius Caesar in 46 BC, made January 1 the first day of the year. But as Christianity spread throughout Europe, efforts were made to christianize the calendar by moving New Year’s Day to dates of greater theological significance, such as Christmas or Easter. Some countries continued to use January 1, justifying this as the date of Christ’s circumcision. As a consequence, by the 1500s the European calendar system was a mess. Not only had errors in the Julian calendar caused the solar year to diverge from the calendar year, but also countries were beginning the year on different dates.



Most regions in France had been using Easter as the start of the year since at least the fourteenth century. This caused particular confusion since the date of Easter was tied to the lunar cycle and changed from one year to the next. Sometimes the same date would occur twice in a year.



However, the French used Easter as the start of the year primarily for legal and administrative purposes. January 1, following the Roman custom, was widely regarded as the traditional start of the year, and it was the day when people exchanged gifts.



Sixteenth-Century Reform

The practice of starting the year on Easter Day caused enormous practical inconvenience, so around 1500 many people in France began to use January 1 as the start of the calendar year. For instance, in early sixteenth-century French books, it is common to see both forms of dating listed side-by-side (for titles published in January, February, or March). By the mid-sixteenth century, a calendar system beginning on January 1 was in wide use in France.



In 1563 King Charles IX decreed January 1 to be the first day of the year, thus aligning legal convention with what had become the popular practice. His edict was passed into law by the French Parliament on Dec. 22, 1564.



Eighteen years later, in 1582, Pope Gregory issued a papal bull decreeing sweeping calendar reform. The Gregorian reform included moving the start of the year to January 1, as well as creating a leap-year system and eliminating ten days from the month of October 1582 in order to correct the drift of the calendar. The Pope had no formal power to make governments accept this reform, but he urged Christian nations to do so. France immediately accepted the reform, although it had already changed the start of the year in 1564. (Many histories of April Fool’s Day mistakenly suggest that France only moved the start of the year in 1582 when it accepted the Gregorian calendar reform in its entirety.)



With this history in mind, it becomes clear that the calendar-change hypothesis is a problematic explanation for the origin of April Fool’s Day. The switch to January 1 did not occur suddenly in France. It was a gradual process, spanning an entire century. And even before the switch, the French New Year had no obvious connection to April 1st.



British Calendar Change

The calendar-change hypothesis is more plausible if applied to Britain, because it was the British, not the French, who observed New Year’s Day on March 25 (the date of the christian Feast of Annunciation), followed by a week of festivities culminating on April 1. In fact, the earliest version of the calendar-change hypothesis to be found in print, dating from 1766, does place the argument in a British context. A correspondent to the Gentleman’s Magazine in April 1766 wrote:



“The strange custom prevalent throughout this kingdom, of people making fools of one another upon the first of April, arose from the year formerly beginning, as to some purpose, and in some respects, on the twenty-fifth of March, which was supposed to be the incarnation of our Lord; it being customary with the Romans, as well as with us, to hold a festival, attended by an octave, at the commencement of the new year—which festival lasted for eight days, whereof the first and last were the principal; therefore the first of April is the octave of the twenty-fifth of March, and, consequently, the close or ending of the feast, which was both the festival of the Annunciation and the beginning of the new year.”



Britain only changed the start of its calendar year to January 1 in 1752. By this time April Fool’s Day was already a well-established tradition. So confusion about the calendar change could not have been responsible for the origin of the custom in Britain. But it is possible, as the correspondent to Gentleman’s Magazine speculated, that the festival held on April 1 (the “octave” of the March 25th calendar year change) evolved into April Fool’s Day. However, this is pure speculation, undermined by the lack of any other compelling evidence that the custom originated in Britain. The earliest unambiguous references to April Fool’s Day actually come from continental Europe, suggesting it is there that April Fool’s Day began.

The Truth About Breakups

The breakup, like most, seemed so abrupt. My caller needed a reason its demise. At that moment, I heard her angels say, “He seems to be running away, but he’s trying to find his own path!” I relayed the message, helping her understand her ex needed time for himself to forge his own path. Feeling confined, he sought freedom. But she had a difficult time trying to grasp his reasons, and couldn’t see his point of view. Her heart hurt from their split. Her angels wouldn’t relent, either.




They kept repeating, “Tell her to keep moving forward, but to have faith that this is a blessed change for them.” I passed this on, telling her that great blessings will come — as long as she sets him free for now. “But,” I said, “The Angels don’t want you to stop living your life, they want you to move through this difficult period with as much faith as you can muster.” My caller’s pain was so deep and her heartbreak so strong that she could not process the message.



“But when will he come back?”



“It’s going to take him some time because he feels the need to be on his own right at this moment,” I replied. It’s not that he doesn’t care about her, he simply needs the room to be able to move about freely while he discovers himself.



Sometimes We have to relay messages that are not easy for people to hear. But in the end, it’s the truth that will set them free. It helps them focus on their path and purpose. once in a while, we all need a reminder or nudge that we can’t control another person. No matter how much it hurts to see them walk away, it’s our life lesson. At times like these, we need to recalibrate — and shift our focus. To keep moving forward.



Angels are always here to remind us that there is a hidden blessing just around the corner. Even though we cannot see it, it doesn’t mean that it doesn’t exist. The most prominent message the Angels give us all: “Keep moving forward, do not become stagnant.”



This is the truth, which is why it can be difficult to hear and process. It propels us to move when we feel stuck in our lives. So, get moving because you never know what hidden blessings may be around the next corner!

The Myth of Love at First Sight

I believe in attraction at first sight. I believe in like, and in lust, at first sight. But do I believe in love at first sight?

Nope. Here’s why.

Like life, there’s really no accurate definition of love. It’s a level of feeling you have towards another person, but only you are going to identify it by measuring your emotions. If humans were more like dashboards, we might have a meter on hearts that blink red when we’re in love, but alas, we do not. We are responsible for our own definitions of love.

But we can get close to a universal definition by agreeing on a few things about love. One is that it is supremely sacred and important to us –- a connection that most of us will use to determine the majority of our lives by pairing us with a significant other.

If love is so important to us, we need to elevate our definitions of it above the spontaneous feelings of attraction, familiarity, and desire that sometimes combine when you first look a new person in the eyes and you skip a breath.

The human body has all sorts of great tricks to ensure that our species doesn’t stop reproducing, and one of them is this very phenomena –- being emotionally attracted to a new person when something in their demeanor responds to what you long for. Is it fair to call this love? No. In fact, it only cheapens our meaning of it.

Real love needs to be proven to you by the other person, and most importantly, by yourself. Real love needs to come from knowing another person, their knowing you, and in finding that your feelings for them increase and maintain when you have the full picture –- not just that first impression.

So while I enjoy the head rush that accompanies a first meeting with someone that I’d rather be waking up next to than be sleeping with, I refuse to mistake it for love. That sort of myth-making is comforting, but it also allows you to enter a relationship under false pretenses, obscuring your chances of knowing if you have real love, or just love at first sight.

How To Get Ex Back: Are You Making Plans?

Those of us who have been in a relationship know how difficult it is to go through a break up. Though most of us try to forget the past and move on, there are some who are unable to part ways and still are in love with their erstwhile partner. These people try different methods and plan on how to get ex back.







If you can't learn to get him or her out of your mind and can't imagine moving on, then there is no other solution but to give it your best shot and try to win them back. The key to winning your ex back is to know what went wrong. The best thing is to ask them at the time of breaking up but there is no guarantee you would be getting a honest answer.






There are also those people who do not take well to being dumped and are more angry than upset at the prospect of having been shown the door. They try to find ways on how to get ex back not because they are in love but because they want it to have happened the other way around.






Every break up has a high chance of being reversed and only requires some careful planning and the right approach to be adopted by you. Through a lot of patience and perseverance you could easily make your ex want you back and the first step in learning how to get ex back is to find out the reason why you were dumped in the first place.






Almost all break ups can be reversed and it just requires some amount of planning and a calculated approach to the whole situation. You needn't come up with complicated ideas. The approach is rather simple and the first step in learning how to get ex back is to figure out the reason behind the break up first.






The important to thing to know about how to get ex back is to adopt a cool and stoical attitude in the aftermath of a break up. You should not appear unconcerned, but at the same time you should not go around acting like your life has been snatched away either.






The important thing you need to keep in mind when learning how to get ex back is to be detached from the whole trauma of breaking up. Relax yourself and keep calm and cool rather than being agitated and grumpy. The way you take the first blow determines the outcome of your attempt to fix things. You should never come across as needy and cringe for their affections. Being apologetic will only worsen your situation. At the same time you cannot afford to be indifferent. Act as if you accept your mistakes and behave as though you have corrected them.






If they see that you are having a good time despite the break up, they would feel a sting and that sting could very well be the crack you need to work on. Hang out with friends from the opposite sex and make sure you are watched by them or their friends. Be aloof and cool if you encounter them at social gatherings and try to adopt the same that you had when you were single, but just leave them out of your scope of targeting. This triggers jealousy. The important thing is to make them miss what they had going on with you and want it back.