Thursday, March 4, 2010

The Truth About Breakups

The breakup, like most, seemed so abrupt. My caller needed a reason its demise. At that moment, I heard her angels say, “He seems to be running away, but he’s trying to find his own path!” I relayed the message, helping her understand her ex needed time for himself to forge his own path. Feeling confined, he sought freedom. But she had a difficult time trying to grasp his reasons, and couldn’t see his point of view. Her heart hurt from their split. Her angels wouldn’t relent, either.




They kept repeating, “Tell her to keep moving forward, but to have faith that this is a blessed change for them.” I passed this on, telling her that great blessings will come — as long as she sets him free for now. “But,” I said, “The Angels don’t want you to stop living your life, they want you to move through this difficult period with as much faith as you can muster.” My caller’s pain was so deep and her heartbreak so strong that she could not process the message.



“But when will he come back?”



“It’s going to take him some time because he feels the need to be on his own right at this moment,” I replied. It’s not that he doesn’t care about her, he simply needs the room to be able to move about freely while he discovers himself.



Sometimes We have to relay messages that are not easy for people to hear. But in the end, it’s the truth that will set them free. It helps them focus on their path and purpose. once in a while, we all need a reminder or nudge that we can’t control another person. No matter how much it hurts to see them walk away, it’s our life lesson. At times like these, we need to recalibrate — and shift our focus. To keep moving forward.



Angels are always here to remind us that there is a hidden blessing just around the corner. Even though we cannot see it, it doesn’t mean that it doesn’t exist. The most prominent message the Angels give us all: “Keep moving forward, do not become stagnant.”



This is the truth, which is why it can be difficult to hear and process. It propels us to move when we feel stuck in our lives. So, get moving because you never know what hidden blessings may be around the next corner!

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